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Explanation: Me and my husband have been together for 9 long years but now I'm just tired of having sex its not as fun as it was maybe because he's not romantic he just wants it like he wants it and every now and then just looking for me to masterbate not concerned if I'm into it.
Answer: Hello,
Your problem is first of all not your problem, but evidently his. Sex is a two way street and both partners should get something out of it, not one.
What might be a solution for you is first of all to try and talk to him about this and maybe introduce some new things that will revive your sexlife. These might be anything from riomantic candles in the bedroom to a romantic dinner, roleplay or whatever. All depends on what both of you cionsider nice and fun.
You may even try to re-seduce him (home cooked meals, a fancy nghtgown or you taking the sex-initiative are often an effective solution). But communication is the main thing here. Talk and talk again. And if that does not help simply refuse to have sex until the matter has been resolved.
Good luck
Hans Meyer
http://www.powerotics.com - serious information about alternative lifestyles
